… I made,” sighed Ty yesterday to hundreds gathered to remember Jim Constable, a beloved member of my church, New City Church, whose burn ravaged body could not be viewed. Don’t make the same mistake I made,” Both stubborn, neither would say the first word to break their father/daughter deafening three year silence. “I never got to say goodbye.” You could hear an elephant drop as, “Don’t make the same mistake I made.” kept echoing around the sanctuary.